The full title of this blog is “Rules of the Road for Men: How to Become a Gentleman in the 21st Century and Find a Life Partner.”  As the title indicates, this blog comprises two separate but related parts.  Becoming a gentleman of the old school is easy and right, but it is not popular in American culture today.  Finding a life partner is a challenge of the first magnitude, because the roles and relationships of men and women have been completely sundered.  The purpose of this blog is to provide some clarity and, I hope, some common sense in helping understand the challenges and setting forth a way forward.